15 April 2012

Of Elevators and Stairs


They say every person has a lot of love to give and that love makes the world go round. But all around you, there are people desperate to be noticed, to be appreciated, to be loved. Seeing this, you begin to wonder if what they say is true. You doubt this because you’ve been through the pains of unrequited love yourself.


It’s really a complex thing but I wish to explain it in a basic standpoint. I’ll compare it to elevators and stairs. Imagine going to an establishment with just one elevator. You’re in a hurry to get a ride up but it’s jam-packed and this disappoints you but you still decide to wait. You look nowhere else but at the elevator door, not knowing that behind you, there’s a stairway. You keep on waiting and waiting, hoping the elevator would go back down quickly but it got stuck because of a glitch in its machination; it’ll take long to fix it. You become so frustrated. Now, if only you took the time to look around, you’d have seen the stairs. And instead of wasting your time waiting on an elevator that’s never going to be available when you want it to be, you could’ve used the stairs and still reached the floor where you wanted to go.


It’s the same way with loving. You try so hard to be the best, so the person you love will notice you. You wait so long for your feelings to be returned, only for it to turn out you were waiting for nothing. And in all the time that you focused on that person, you failed to appreciate another one who thrives in your existence. Someone who is also doing everything to be the perfect one you’ll love and like. It’s just like focusing too much on the elevator and not minding the stairs, isn’t it? You may feel like it’s not right. But think of it this way, if you feel that you have it hard loving someone who doesn’t love you, do you think it’s any different for that person who’s doing everything just to be loved by you? I guess love is unfair that way.

Decide




There are many factors in life which you have no direct control. And yet even with those things, you can decide how to handle them.


Decide that this day will be productive and consequential, and it will be. Decide to rise above the petty distractions, and you’re already on your way.


Decide that there are valuable opportunities in the challenges, and you’ll find those opportunities. Decide to make a positive difference, and you’ll have what is necessary to do so.


Decide to live and work and play from a perspective of doing good and doing great.  

FRENEMIES

A friend in need is a friend indeed goes the popular saying. So how do we know who is a friend and who is enemy ?? by looks , by talk , or a SITUATION ?? Naa I dont think so.. U may js need a moment to be someone’s friend or an enemy .  Enemies are far better bcz u knw for sure their character and u stay away.Everybody needs a friend in life to share joys, drown in sorrows, and for a happy cheerful life . "FRENEMIES" are worse people on earth , because they are your friend in private but they b*tch about you in public .They are offspring of friend and an enemy .U can never trust them anytime bcz u never know when they wash dirty linen in public. They coexist wid us .Its jus us who needs to be careful while choosing friends … Beware of FRENEMIES…..