03 July 2009

mama mama can you change the diaper?

Hey folks this is an interesting piece of article I found..Its nice and beneficial for many who tumble upon this article on my blog, so put it up...go on read it along---

Just as men fantasize about housemaids and actresses, women fantasize about firemen and policemen, who are men that display strength, power and masculinity.

If a sexy fireman had to check with his mother every time he took off his clothes for a girl, his sex appeal would definitely fade. Women generally like strong men who aren't intimidated or easily influenced by other people, and that's a big reason why women don't like mama's boys. :P

The thing is, mama's boys often fulfill their mother's every wish, especially the most unreasonable ones ---- and that's where the problems start.

If a man lives out his mother's every wish, chances are that he will not make decisions with his significant other without his mother's approval. It's hard enough to share decisions as a couple, so it is rare that a woman will tolerate a third person interfering in her relationship with her man. When a girl is 12 and her boyfriend can't go out because his mother doesn't approve, it's OK because he's still a child. When that boy becomes a man and his mother still rules his life, however, most women aren't that understanding.
Women want to be No. 1...........

If a woman shares a man's bed, she probably won't settle to be second fiddle in his life.

It is normal and expected that a man will treat his mother on her birthday, Mother's Day, or on any other celebration. However, if a man always puts his mother before his wife, no matter what the occasion, chances are his wife will end up resenting him and leave him. The main reason why women don't like mama's boys is because competing with the woman who gave birth to him just isn't an option.Imagine if you are out and your man just calls up and asks permission to even treat his wife-isnt it ridiculous?forget mother, infact women of the household needs to be consulted..pathetic!!!

The first thing a man can do to avoid being ditched for being a mama's boy is create a new relationship with his mother as an adult. If you've ever been called a mama's boy, chances are your mother is too intrusive and you need to learn how to say "no" to her.

She might be a saint, but it doesn't mean that she can't be unreasonable and manipulative. Your mother already knows you love her and would do anything for her, and that is precisely the problem. She knows you can't say no.

So, once in a while, even through her tears and attempts at emotional blackmail, let your mother know how good your wife is to you and how important it is that she remains part of your life.

It's OK to tell your mother when you are looking forward to that romantic weekend you have planned for you and your girlfriend. It is also OK to tell her that she doesn't need to make sandwiches for the road.

When a mother-in-law is in the picture too much, it can make a woman feel like she isn't doing a good job at keeping her man happy since he still has another "woman" doting on him. Women like to know they're making their men happy. They don't want to hear that they can't cook or can't do things as well as their lovers' mother.

No privacy
Another thing women dislike about mama's boys is the fact that they sometimes make the mistake of telling their mothers certain private things. After all, no woman wants to date Ray from Everybody Loves Raymond. Often. Women expect men to have difficulties talking about intimate issues, so when a woman finds out her man has been speaking to his mother about their problems, she feels betrayed.there are some issues which your spouse might want to keep between you and her..

Never let your wife feel that she comes second and that your mother always has the last word. If your wife witnesses you giving in to your mother's unreasonable requests, make sure that she also witnesses you saying no to your mother.

If you're a mama's boy, chances are your mother will think that no other woman will ever be good enough for you. So when your mother tells you that she will not break your heart but your lover will, remember that if you love and respect both the women in your life fairly, your lover will always want to play nurse with you and your mother will never stop baking you cookies