31 May 2009

Time together


it might pay to revolutionise it around for a moment,In order to get at the nucleus of this relationship question
Is there such a thing as not so healthy time spent together? For most couples, the answer is yes.
There is a distinct line between time spent profitably and time which can actually cause bad feelings and discord.
But where is that line, and how can one better half know if that line has indeed been crossed?
This is where open communication becomes essential.

Time spent together as a couple should be profitable to both.
Couples just starting a new relationship may want to spend every spare minute together,
which may sound unhealthy to outsiders but both are getting and receiving the intimacy they crave.
As long as you and your partner feel this bond growing stronger,
the linear time spent together should be viewed as healthy or unhealthy.

There’s a lot going on during those first few weeks or months of a romantic relationship,
so society’s rules rarely apply.
Don’t be afraid to spend as much time together as possible during the earliest stages of a promising relationship.

And i suppose am done with all my preachings, hmm does it sound any different??but trust me all this is not all that easy when one goes through it all...